Dear Mikkel,
I know I have responded to you privately on this, but it does seem that the NVidia P345 cards may not be supported by Apple any longer.
Here are a few disturbing reports.
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/2507251?start=0&tstart=0
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/4146004?start=0&tstart=0
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/2246326?start=0&tstart=0
In the second one, this quote:
"It is a shame I wasted so much time on such a simple issue. I wish Apple would annouce the they do not support this board anymore (or maybe they do, but I didn't know) but even if not supported it should not halt startup like this."
It may be that it's simply the cards.
I'll post more when I hear more from Mikkel.
Best Wishes,
Mark